I hope you don't mind my emailing you a random question, but I happened to
find your site on the internet tonight and I saw your email address. I find
myself getting into discussions about morality and theology quite a bit
these days. I know part of the reason is that I am very excited about my
faith and don't mind discussing it, but the biggest reason seems to be that
I stand along amongst my peers for some of my beliefs. I am in medical
school at the University of Alabama. Even among other Christians I get
questions, especially about birth control. The doubts in my mind about the
morality of birth control were probably the first steps on my way to
Catholicism. I was very intrigued by a talk by Janet Smith at my college a
few years ago. Now I'm definitely sure about my views on the subject, and
they aren't very well respected in a scientific and medical atmosphere. I
guess I'm an easy target for jokes because I don't plan to use
contraception, and most people in my class, and especially my non-Catholic
Christian friends, think that's a ridiculous decision. We just had a
teacher the other day implying that anyone who hasn't figured out what birth
control is yet are idiots. She seemed to think it was the only way to go.
Anyway, of course that brought several comments from my friends who don't
understand my decision at all.
But the point of my email is really about Authority and what the Church
teaches. How do you explain authority and trust in the Church's teachings
to people who are not Catholic, or even to Catholics who are questioning why
you follow the Church on certain issues. I was discussing with my dad my
decision to not use contraception when my fiance and I get married (he's a
physician and a Protestant, so this really doesn't make sense to him), and
he questions why I should follow the church on everything because "they've
changed their minds in the past." He is always saying that, referring to
their approach to science or celibacy or whatever. He keeps claiming that a
lot of very intelligent people are Catholics and disagree with certain
stances of the church (ie Andrew Sullivan). And I would argue that a lot of
very intelligent people love the church and still follow it's teachings
because of their faith. Anyway, I had another friend ask the same thing
recently, about how do I know the church isn't just going to change its mind
with the next pope or anything concerning contraception (or whatever)....and
how do you trust it if it's changed its mind in the past. When I get
questions like these I feel like I don't respond well on the spot and I'm
not always sure what to say. Could you give me some guidance.
I know this is a really long and random email, but I saw your site and liked
it and I hoped you could help me. Take your time, I know you are a busy
man.
If you don't have time to respond, that's okay...I can always ask someone
else, I just felt moved to email you.
God bless you,
Anna
**********
Dear Anna,
Thanks for the confidence - and please accept my apologies in taking so long to respond. I did pray for you after getting your email, but then it kind of got buried. It would be wonderful if you could come to Seattle after graduating - we certainly need more medical professionals who can support or help people in living their faith. But you will also be a godsend in Alabama or wherever you wind up.
Rather than an argument, I would encourage you to share with your friends that you sincerely believe Jesus is God - and that his mission as bridegroom (Mk 2:19, etc.) was to form a bride which is his church. Even though the Catholic Church sometimes seems old and not so beautiful, Jesus would never divorce her so he could marry a newer model.
All of the Church's (i.e, Jesus') teaching on sexuality must be seen in that marriage context. Contraception goes against the total giving which should be a part of each marriage act. These are hard teachings, but if a person loses sight of the basic vision, they easily fall into what is destructive to individuals and society in general. You can see it in our society's current push to change the whole meaning of marriage by having ceremonies involving two men or two women.
Those are my thoughts. More important you have my prayers. God bless,
Fr. Bloom
********** Catholic Teaching on Birth Control
The Crisis of the Catholic University
The Abortion Issue.
Homily on Abortion and Homosexuality
The Challenge of Secular Humanism
The Religion of our Culture: Naturalism
Magdalene Sisters and other anti-Catholic Pornography (Warning: Contains graphic descriptions.)
The Catholic Church: Founded by Jesus
Hitler's Pope: Comic Book Approach to Church History C.S. Lewis: To Dissenting Priests