How to Solve the Problem of Poverty, Orphans, Widows and Social Corruption via Spiritual Mut'ah?

 

By leaving all these widows and orphans and divorce women unmarried we are leaving them  vulnerable to the evils of society and poverty.

 

There is a simple solution via Spiritual Mut'ah.  Please let me explain.

 

Even if 5% or less of us do this we can change the world.

 

We tell the unmarried women to do non-sexual unofficial cerimonial/spiritual "polygynous mut'ah marriage" according to the religious teaching of the Prophet Muhamamad and his progeny (as) in order to raise their spiritual rank by 3500% and preserve your faith by 50%.

 

This way we can protect the dignity and honor of our women from the ignorant people.

 

See rule 2432 at http://al-islam.org/laws/marriage2.html#2430

 

This will also protect us from anti-polygamy laws  because in writing it is only a spiritual friendship marriage.
In the US because you can say it was an unofficial spiritual marriage not official literal, it won't be breaking any laws.

 

If later on in the relationship the woman waives the condition in rule 2432 that is no ones business except the couples.  They don't have to reveal to the public what they do behind closed doors.  On paper it is only a spiritual friendship marriage so it breaks no rules at all.  We say that a man and a woman can not be friends unless they do this type of spiritual friendship marriage.  They can't touch us.  This is also a great replacement for girlfriend/boyfriend relationships at school that many of our children are doing without their parents knowledge.  We should encourage them to be transparent in their relationships with persons of the opposite gender to nurture honesty and love rather than shame and sin.  This can also take the place of unislamic engagement before marriage where many couples are doing haraam things

like simply holding hands!  Why leave them to sin when they can do things the proper and mustahabb way?

 

see my articles at http://oocities.com/aly2k1

 

We desperatel need to break the stigma of temporary marriage so Islam will spread in this country.

 

If polygyny becomes normal in our communities it will save a lot of marriages.

 

See my domino effect of divorce article at http://oocities.com/aly2k1

 

Please let us discuss this.  If this is not the solution to the problem of surplus women and high divorce rates then what is?

 

 

 

 

There are many traditions that say that a married person's Salaat of 2 raka'ah equals 70 raka'at of a non-married person.

 

That means that by being married, be it mut'ah or daa'im, your degree in the presence of Allah is raise by 3500%!

 

The Prophet said that marriage protects half of your faith.

 

Faith and intelligence go hand in hand in Islam. They are synonymous so by enhancing and protecting faith one enhances intelligence.

 

There are many traditions that say that if you die an unmarried person Allah will not be pleased with you on the day of judgement, and the Imams say that I would rather give up everything in the world if I owned it then to stay unmarried for a single day.

 

A woman comes to the Imam and says I am Mutabattilah, which is basically a derivative of Batool.

 

The Imam asks her what do you think it means? She said, I remain unmarried and believe that that raises my rank with Allah.

 

The Imam got angry and said go away. Are you better than Fatimah al-Zahraa There is no woman greater than Fatimah.

 

If being unmarried was a virtue in Islam then Fatimah would be unmarried too but she wasn't.

 

عن الإمام الرضا عليه السلام : « إنَّ امرأة سألت أبا جعفر عليه السلام فقالت : أصلحك الله إنّي متبتلة، فقال لها : وما التبتل عندك ؟ قالت : لا أريد التزويج أبداً ، قال : ولِمَ ؟ قالت : ألتمس في ذلك الفضل ، فقال : انصرفي فلو كان في ذلك فضل لكانت فاطمة عليها السلام أحقُّ به منك ، إنّه ليس أحد يسبقها إلى الفضل » (2).
) أمالي الطوسي 1 : 380. وبحار الأنوار 103 : 219.
http://www.rafed.net/books/aam/osra-fi-almojtamae/02.html

 

 

This is in both Sunni and Shi'i references.  Anyone know the Shi'i references?

Even if you disbelieve that this is the time what will we do about the problem of surplus women in the Shi'a community?

It is easy to criticize but if polygyny is not the solution what is?  Lake of acceptance of polygyny has made the divorce

rates in our communities sky rocket.  Most cases of divorce are because a man did mu'tah but what are these single

women to do if they don't "steal" a husband for themselves?

 

how many of you have known of cases a married man doing mut'ah with a single shi'i woman secretly, the first wife finding out eventually and the 1st wife demanding a divorce?

After 10 years that same very 1st wife secretly does mut'ah with another married man and his own first wife finds out eventually and his own 1st wife demands a divorce?

Don't you see brothers and sisters.  We can reverse the domino effect in the other direction if we educate and encourage polygyny.  What will happen

if we succeed is that the non-muslim single women will come to Shi'i Islam motivated by our acceptance of Polygyny as a normal and honorable

institution and their recognition of the truth of 12er Shi'i Islam.  We can't lose! 

Even the non-muslim men will come to Shi'i Islam because they would love to have 2 wives and it is perfectly fine so long as he is just because the non-muslim women were jealous and he used to cheat behind his non-muslim wife's back but now he doesn't have to.

non muslim women would prefer being married polygynously to a good man who is loyal and loving than a bad man who cheats behind her back constantly and where all co-wives love each others like sisters rather than being jealous of one another.

 http://al-islam.org/encyclopedia/chapter6a/

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