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Questions to Lady Lost Part Eleven:
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1) How do you feel about the most recent accusations wherein the alleged perpetrator accuses you of hiring an assassin through this website? He's wackadoodle doo again! It's pretty amazing really. Especially when one considers what he's been up to these past years. I think he's merely playing more manipulation games -- trying to milk the situation for all it's worth. It's pathetic really and it shows how delusional he is. He will claim anything if he believes it will serve his demented purpose! And as usual his letters are so full of contradictions it's unreal. A fact observed by others who have seen the contents of the garbage he writes.
2)How do you feel about his threats to put up a website full of his ludicrous accusations? Well, it's illegal (infringing upon the copyright laws when he's been explicitly told he has no such rights, making false claims and implicating specific individuals, etc. etc. etc.) but he doesn't care much about that. After these past years I'm pretty much used to whatever tricks he can think of to try on for size. We'll just play it by ear. Basically, he's showing more egotistical nut bunny delusions and he's trying to control the situation and all involved by making such threats.
3) Why do you believe he spends most of his time at the co-victim's residence? Simply because it's easy pickens over there -- it's just one huge wide open easy to get to cookie jar where nearly everything goes unreported (due to lack of confidence in a legal remedy) and undocumented (due to lack of confidence in a legal remedy). He does it because he can and it's easy. It probably makes him feel powerful because he's so crazy he isn't able to realize that he's perpetrating on the easy pickens. If he left that area he's just find some other helpless individual to pick on. It is not unusual for these nut puppies to transfer onto others like this -- it's extremely well documented.
4) Since the alleged perpetrator accuses you of such heinous crimes against a child, do you care to inform this sites many readers what your true feeling regarding children may be? Well, I'd rather save that one for the book where it's already documented in several works (not the kinds he refers to!LOL!). What I can say is that any additional opportunities for this kind of fulfillment is not available to me. I've run out of time and I'm not in the right relationship or situation.
5)The alleged perpetrator states that you claimed your husband committed heinous abuses against your son. What would you like to say to your readers regarding this? He took everything I mentioned, every little nuance (ever so remotely connected or not remotely connected, he didn't care which), every miniscule statement and blasted it way up into the Twilight Zone, cross bred it with some unknown exotic species of Aliens, brought it back down again, spliced it up and flipped it all around in a military biohazard lab, then he took it to a genetic experimentation lab, added an innumerable amount of new dimensions to it, drudged up some unknown deep water sea critters to add their oddities to the nearly finalized product, then he blew it so far out of proportion I can't barely recognize it anymore. If I hadn't had the communication with him during the break between the restraining orders I wouldn't recognize it at all -- it would have been shocking. However, due to the fact that I heard all this garbage from him repeatedly during that brief time, I'm kind of accustomed to the strangeness of his claims.
6)So when you say you're not in the right situation for additional children, what do you mean exactly? A ton of things really: A) I'm getting too old to risk it. B) I'm not in the right relationship (and no the male in the picture doesn't have to be guilty of violent shaking activities to make the relationship inappropriate for adding more children to the mix)! There's a lot more to life than the simplistic imaginary and utterly immature black and white picture this alleged perpetrator uses. This immature picture within his claims, falsely stated as my concrete claims to all who will listen, feature the repetitive following: a totally child-aggressive-psycho spouse/husband or a non-totally-child-aggressive-psycho spouse/husband. There are ideal relationships and multitudes of factors involved. A grown person sees this reality. I believe only ideal relationships are suitable. There are too many ways a situation or relationship can fall below the idea. The worst case scenarios involve domestic violence and severe adult emotional abuse. However, other factors of quality or the lack thereof, whatever exist --- there are too many variables that are not all connected to the life expectancy of the child, yet they can become connected to the quality of life for the child. Sometimes one child can do OK within the situation and resources/finances/other situations/ available but more would sink the ship. All spontaneously thought of variations, desirable and not desirable are portrayed, compared, and contrasted in, "The Bag"). C) Inadequate finances. D) Inadequate resources due to the inadequate finances. Children are expensive. Day care is expensive. School, school clothes, school supplies are expensive. Safety alterations to your home are costly. Car seats aren't cheap either. The list goes on into eternity. Children are time consuming, as they well should be. Even groceries are expensive! This is a huge responsibility. So my situation is not right for additions. It's just not going to happen and this is rather sad. But then life isn't fair… No more chances. That's how it goes. It's all right there in the trilogy in medley form and all it's vivid color. However, most of the trilogy works are adult in nature.
7) Who's opinion has it been within your specific circumstances that additional children are not a good possibility? Mine. It is totally my choice, my decision, and my responsibility to prevent this occurrence, which cannot be at this time nor any remotely foreseeable time in the future. The resources aren't there for additions. This is unyielding.
8) Would it not be the case that were you guilty of the crimes he states you have committed that the above mentioned factors would not be so significant upon your decision process? Absolutely, from everything I've ever heard or read! Women who suffer from the disorder he insists I have wouldn't hesitate to create more children. This is especially true when they have a spouse who would want exactly this, have felt pressures to do so, and there are adequate resources for basic physical sustenance in the picture. The thoughts regarding adult prevention due to overwhelming responsibility wouldn't likely cross the minds of these inflicted women. Their reward system doesn't come from being adult or responsible. As I've said many times, he's simply wackadoodle doo.
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