Narcissism Personality Disorder
or
NPD
This word narcissist originated in a legend where upon a Greek boy Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection in a pond. Psychologically we know today that the narcissist suffers from a chronic lack of confidence, thus needing to prove himself to everyone he comes in contact with.
A narcissist presents a false self to the world. Under his inferiority is a preoccupation with fantasies of outstanding achievement, ideal love, and an aimless orientation toward superficial interests.
According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM), here is criteria necessary to be considered a narcissist.
An exaggeration of talents and achievements which demonstrates self-confidence.
Uses others to satisfy his needs and desires, expects preferential treatment without undertaking mutual commitments.
Possesses expansive imagination.
May appear nonchalant, unimpressed, and cold blooded.
Rebels against the conventions of common social existence, does not value personal integrity and the rights of others.
Some other easier ways to understand such behavior is these examples from actual clients:
One woman reported that she had a boyfriend lived in two separate cities, only about 2 hours apart and in the "getting to know you" phase, he sent her his resume and had highlighted the titles of his job and the salary. She did not get it until later as to why he really sent the resume.
Another had a husband who embellished the jobs he had had. His wife, often embarrassed, would leave the room while he told his tales.
There are degrees of this personality disorder and therapy can be helpful in some cases where the disorder is causing bothersome disturbances in relationships, job, etc.
Long-term psychodynamic therapy has been found to be the most effective in working with this disorder. The therapist must create an accepting environment, thus allowing the patient to develop an idealizing transference toward the therapist. And this NPD is not usually treated with antidepressants or other drugs.
Long term individual therapy is the best option and a trusting relationship needs to be established before true recovery can begin. Group therapy is not a good option because the one with the disorder or the strongest one will try and dominate the group.
Come along with the TLC committee and learn more about this disorder.
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