Next you feel for that sexy rhythm in the music and let it drift through your sensorium. You begin to dance, it comes natural when you set your mind to it.
Keep eye contact with him at all times as you sway infront of him. Touch yourself in your most erogenous areas, but not to much, just gentle hints. Watch his eyes follow both your hands and your body.
Then turn and lean onto him, as if you are drifting over his body, careful not to lean too hard. Tell him to relax and "Don't touch!"....let your hair waft in his face, and turn your head so that your lips almost brush his, but don't kiss him. He will try to reach his lips to yours, but you keep your distance....turn so that your body then faces him keeping up the rhythm and let him see your breasts mean business as you move then closer to his face and away again.
Next is the strip. Sit on his lap and in time to the music, slowly remove that blouse. Push out those breasts, still within the bra. Slowly remove the bra, again in time with the music and remind him once again as you hold it loose against you...."Don't touch!"....let it fall away.
By now you should be "feeling" his reaction as you sit on his lap. Do gentle jerks against him. Undo the slip and then stand back. Dance out of the slip slowly and gently and let it fall to one side. All you should be wearing at this point is that thong. Tell him to stay put or else.....nicely.
Next you have to be really raunchy and let yourself go. Use your hands to touch your breasts, emphasizing the hardness of your nipples. Drift them downwards over your body in time to the music, don't loose that rhythmic timing. Fingers touching your thong and pointing out the most obvious spot will now make him absolutely under your control. It is at this point that most men are inactive apart from one important part of their anatomy.
Use those finger to probe into your most secret spot beneath the thong. Slowly show him that you are wet and lick your finger sensuously. Stroke and touch yourself to the rhythm of the music and then wriggle your way out of the thong slowly. Drift over him once more, wafting that thong infront of his face and then disgard it to one side. Still remind him not to touch you.
Next your breasts will come into play. Let him feel them against his face...nose and then lips...he will respond, but tantalisingly move them away from too much contact. Do it with both each in turn and then reach down for his crotch, rubbing it gently.
From then on.........well, nature takes its course and you do what comes naturally. The "no touching bar" should just melt away. Most men at this point do however tend to think of one thing...........HAVE FUN!
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We can read a great deal of work written about the female sexual orgasm. But there is nothing better than ones own experiences to give each one of us the answers we are looking for. It must be rare for there to be a woman or a girl in this world that can truly say they never experienced an orgasm.
In the past, men in their social authority doubted their existence in certain cultures and societies. Women knew the truth, and what they knew was kept in abeyance. For women were regarded as providers of sexual pleasure for the men and the bearers of their children.
Today, women are now open in their discussions about them. Of course they exist. And as with many women, they have become an essential pleasure worth embracing.
No matter how they are induced, they can play an important psychological role in our lives from childhood to grave. And there are many ways to make them happen and differing intensities to experience.
Later I realised more that part of my body that seemed to be responsible for those tingles and wondered to myself why it was placed in such a secret and personal place. Discovering the clitoris was like finding a new toy. I found a need to want to exploit its potential, which then opened up to new, undiscovered areas of my body which could have the same effect.