E-mail: the Pitfalls
Confidentiality
Your privacy is always the first thing you should worry about. Never assume
that your messages will not be read by people other than the intended recipient,
so be discreet. Copies of your messages dwell in your computer server (ISP)
or may be intercepted as it passes many routers and networks during transmission.
For e-mail you send and receive in your office, your employer has rights
and access to all your files as well, bypassing your password controls,
since they own the resources. Those who receive your mail may also forward
it to others without your knowledge or permission. Bottomline, heed Arlene
Rinaldi's Netiquette tip: "don't write anything that you don't want to
appear in the evening news."
Password Security
Be careful with your passwords. Although we prefer to use passwords that
are easy to remember you shouldn't come up with anything that can be easily
identified with you like children's names, mother's maiden name,
address, phone number, birth date, etc. Since computer programs may also
be used to decode password, don't pick a word from the dictionary. Experts
recommend a good password has six to eight characters with numbers, for
example, dcodis77 or liz2000. It may not be hacker-proof but you can at
least minimize your risks.
Privacy
Unless you don't mind receiving junk mail, don't give away your e-mail
address, social security number, and other personal information freely.
At worse, somebody could assume your identity, send damaging e-mail that
appear to come from you, or commit a felony and crime. Be wary when you
fill out a form in a commercial website. Information like this are sold
to mass mailers (a.k.a. spammers). In addition to ads, this is one of the
things that drive free sites. Think twice before signing up for free cruises,
software, subscriptions, and online lotteries. Look for the logo of TRUSTe
or a similar watchdog organization that sets standards and monitors websites.
Check the privacy statements of the site how they are going to use information
gathered from you. Responsible sites will advise you if they are going
to share that data with other companies. Others give you check boxes for
options if you want to receive announcements and the like from them and
their sponsors. It's your call.
Children's E-mail
Children need extra protection with their e-mail accounts. To hide their
identities it is prudent to refrain from using their last names. For example,
it is better to have johnd@mail.com than jdoe@mail.com. You also don't
want their address, phone number, and other revealing information to appear
anywhere in their account. Explain to the child why these precautions are
important to her safety. Don't rely on U.S. laws that require websites
to obtain proof of age and formal consent of parents or guardians to collect
information from minors. Not all sites are subject to such laws. Most are
also reluctant to impose this requirement since the hassle will discourage
surfers and reduce traffic to their sites. Neither will it deter minors
from lying about their age if they want to register with that site.
Some parents share the same e-mail accounts with their children as a
way of monitoring who they are corresponding with. Or they check the child's
e-mail address book. Others are uncomfortable about prying and snooping
this way, worried that it violates the child's privacy. In the interest
of safety and security, schools though have the prerogative to inspect
computer files in the same way the law allows them to check students' lockers.
The best recourse for parents is the classic, "know who your children's
friends are." Educators can help by constantly reminding children to never
talk to strangers, even in the Internet, and above all, never meet someone
they met thru the Internet without an adult escort.
Recommended reading:
Playing
it Safe on the Web: Consumer Do's and Donts.
Common sense rules and take-charge tips for safeguarding your privacy
online from privacy Partnership and TRUSTe.
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